Compelled By Love's work in Rwanda centres around trauma counselling, rehabilitation and reconciliation using the Empower program to combat the impacts of the 1994 Genocide Against the Tutsi. Alongside that, we also have leadership development, education sponsorship and socio-economic enterprise as complementary initiatives. Projects in Rwanda are done in partnership with local NGO's, who are like-minded in vision and values - combining our skills and resources with their local insight, experience and knowledge. Working together helps us develop projects that see lasting and effective change for individuals and communities. The genocide in Rwanda is a tragedy beyond words, with over 1 million people dying in just 100 days. We are privileged to work alongside the people of Rwanda. Over 25 years on, much healing is still needed. But also, the Rwandan people have much to teach us through their courage, faith and forgiveness. 

In partnership with CARSA, we are working together to see individuals and communities transformed. The Empower program is about building resilience and alleviating physical and psychological symptoms of trauma. Education sponsorship is a long-term investment in the development of the whole person, to change not only their future, but that of their family and the generations to come. Leadership development is focused on our partners, seeking to invest in them so that their organisations are strengthened, enabling the work to continue into the future, providing sustainability. Socio-economic enterprise provides practical ways for people to continue their journey of healing, forgiveness and reconciliation. We also engage in special projects, restoring dignity and value to people by responding to housing, counselling and medical needs. 

With a whole country devastated by the effects of the 1994 Genocide Against the Tutsi, the volume and intensity of the trauma suffered in Rwanda was unprecedented. A specially designed program for counselling and rehabilitation is needed in order to engage with this unique situation. 

Empower is a program that was co-developed by Australians and Ugandans to deal with trauma issues. Compelled By Love has worked with our local partners to adapt this for the Rwandan context. We have seen incredible transformation in people's lives, both for victims and perpetrators of the genocide. 


Empower is run over a period of seven days, with groups of 36 participants. 
Its aim is to alleviate the effects of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and build resilience in people's lives, particularly for those from poor communities who do not have the resources to seek help on their own. 

 

The program teaches and guides the participants step by step, with each day building on what was learnt and discovered the previous day. Participants are given the opportunity and taught to share their stories in a safe way that does not result in re-traumatisation. 

Empower has two parts - the first section focuses on trauma and equipping the participants with skills to process their experiences and deal with the symptoms of trauma. Participants report being able to share their story with another person for the first time, sleeping through the night for the first time since the genocide, and healing of other trauma-related physical symptoms such as headaches and chronic pain.

The second part teaches about forgiveness, and how forgiving is like releasing a burden that opens the way to hope and freedom. After Empower, participants share about the restoration of relationships between husbands and wives, parents and children and genocide victims and perpetrators.

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Why Rwanda?

In 1994, genocide against the Tutsi people of Rwanda occurred, in which over 1 million people were tortured and murdered over the course of 100 days. The genocide was a climax of years of Belgian colonisation, in which deep ethnic divisions were created between the Hutu, Tutsi and Twa people. These divisions were formalised by the Belgians through the establishment of identity cards, as a strategy by which to control the country. Today, more than two decades on, physical, emotional and psychological scars remain. The genocide has not only impacted those who lived through it, but has deeply influenced Rwandan culture and way of life. Even the next generation, who did not experience the genocide firsthand, carry great anger and disillusionment.

The genocide has crippled the nation of Rwanda, with research within the first two years showing over 75% of the population meeting the full criteria for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). PTSD is not limited only to those who were victims of the genocide but is also prevalent in those who participated in the genocide - understanding that the genocide was largely committed by the civilian population under coercion and threat from government forces and community leaders. 

In addition to the tragic loss of life, hundreds of thousands of women were left widowed, almost 300,000 children were orphaned and around 150,000 people were imprisoned. The country's infrastructure was destroyed and a large percentage of the population was left homeless. Many fled Rwanda during the genocide and endured further suffering in refugee camps. Attacks and raids persisted for a number of years, mostly in northern Rwanda, and perpetrators of the genocide continued to live and operate out of neighbouring countries, such as the Congo. 

Sadly, over the years the incidence of PTSD has not decreased, but rather it appears to be on the rise, as the children and families of direct survivors are also impacted. PTSD affects the mental and physical health of individuals, as well as seriously impeding their ability to make a living and learn new skills. Therefore, many Rwandans live in extreme poverty, isolated from the world around them and living in constant fear and anxiety. The release of 100,000 prisoners back into the community in 2006 was a major trigger of PTSD in many survivors and resulted in an increased atmosphere of fear, suspicion, and hatred. As survivors and perpetrators live side by side in the villages where their traumas occurred, tension and hostility is high, and people often consider or carry out ongoing violence. 

 

  • 300,000 children orphaned as a result of the genocide.

  • 535,000 women victims of rape, mostly by HIV-positive men.

  • 150,000 people currently living with AIDS, and 7,800 people dying each year as a result of the disease.

  • 85,000 child-headed households.

  • 60,000 widows.

  • 59.9% of the total population living below the poverty line (2006).

  • 64.7% of those in rural areas living in poverty (2006).

  • Current life expectancy is 46 years.


The enrolment rate in rural secondary schools is as low as 6%, and dropout rates high, particularly for girls. Attachment disorders are surfacing in the next generation of children, as parents were unable to provide the necessary love and emotional support. 

91% of survivors did not have a chance to bury their relatives or perform mourning ceremonies for their loved ones, causing many to suffer from chronic traumatic grief, in addition to PTSD.


 

PARTNER STATEMENT

“The Genocide against the Tutsi in Rwanda has destroyed communities, broken
trust and shattered relationships, leaving vulnerable people without a safety net. The process of reconciliation requires individual trauma healing, forgiveness and truth telling. A
t CARSA, we’ve been supporting communities in their journey towards healing, forgiveness, reconciliation and sustainable holistic transformation. In this process, Compelled By Love has been partnering with CARSA through the Empower program, Education sponsorship as well as providing houses for vulnerable families. Their support has not only impacted lives but has become a strong foundation for sustainable change. In 2018/2019, over 400 genocide survivors and their direct perpetrators have been able to start their journey towards healing and forgiveness. This has enabled CARSA to continue its contribution towards rebuilding a society where peace, solidarity and unity are established."

CHRISTOPHE MBONYINGABO

Executive Director of CARSA

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